This morning I was humming this song later made my dear Alexa play it for me.“Zindagi ka safar hai ye kaisa safar koi samja nahi koi jana nhi” (translation: the journey of life is something no one has understood or known) this is a very beautiful song and the lyrics tells us about the reality of life. We hardly know anything which would happen in life. It does not follow any pattern, even death is a mystery don’t know when it comes and whom it takes away. I have seen people claiming they can know the future or know what will happen next, would be a part and parcel of making money, I am unsure of that though. Intuition is something which not all are gifted with, I would not say you cannot be intuitive coz there are some situation which we can predict….magic? hahahaha not exactly its some force sending some waves up to the universe getting waves down to your brain….. hahahaha alien thoughts hahaha.

When we know that nothing is static, or nothing is going according to how it should be or how we want it to be. This means we need to be calculative of where we are wasting our precious time and make our memories more memorable and less chaotic. In my last write up I spoke about expressing your stress through any mode you are comfortable with this would make you a more productive person with less thoughts in the wrong direction. There is one more way which is important which we need to follow.

We need to give up on people or situations which are of no value. There are some people we have stocked in life which are only there to increase the problems in our lives. Now you may wonder what would that mean. Have you seen those people who wait to see you in trouble so that they can come and say omg this is very bad what happened and instead of finding solutions will create more questions for you. I have seen some so called friends who instead of trying to get you out of the situation put more fire and make your life more miserable. This week I would like the readers who read this blog to give up on those people in life who fall in the category I mentioned above. You may think these are your friends but mind you they are not.

Secondly we need to give up on situations which are not meant to be. That doesn’t mean we don’t search for other ways to get the things done. This can be confusing again with a thin line in between.

May be a stupid example here but let me put it up…… someone who is actually tying to understand what I have written may get it. My husband’s uncle expired all of a sudden when I got the news I was as usual so hyper I called my husband and told him we need to rush to Goa. We went to all the travel agencies to find a direct flight to Goa as I had a severe back problem bed rest situation could not sit for more than 10 minutes. We did not get a single ticket. We gave up…………not our travelling plan for sure……. But the idea of getting direct flight to Goa coz we knew it will only tense the situation and make me feel more painful with the thought of travelling more than 2 n half hours to Goa. We took a flight from Abudhabi to Chennai…..Chennai to Bangalore and then Bangalore to Goa full 11+ hours. If we had cribbed about how we are not getting a direct flight and how my back would pain if we don’t get a 2 n half hour flight etc etc we would never reach Goa immediately the next day. Don’t worry I never said pain would decrease but the pain our brain would take thinking about it would be more. As well explained by a renowned Indian Yogi Sadhguru who once explained how pain works. It increases if we concentrate on it and can be decreased if we want to. Too complicated hahaha will put that in one of my writeups in future in detail.

Same goes with life here, cribbing may make us feel good or make us feel relaxed or the so called friends or your relatives who crib along with you may make you feel comfortable but remember this is the danger we need to give up on, we need to find solutions for problems or else these people or the current situation wont allow you to grow.

Give up and see, you will be more contented than ever. Find that other route which will may make your life a bit challenging and longer but will get you there more happier.

There is a point we need our minds and brain to achieve,  will explain that in my next write up until then stay tuned.

Taking you leave for now……Stay Blessed….Stay Happy….Stay Safe….

In life we have that point wherein there is no more absorption and it is better to come to this point early. We normally say work till 40 or 45 n then rest in life, but instead of working and earning money till 45 I would say work on yourself also and get to the saturation point early in life. I sometimes feel I complicate the readers with my topics and my words. But I am just trying to put forth what life has displayed in a plate so that it can be picked and digested in an easy form hahahahaha. In all my topics written so far on stress, expectation, etc there is a point where stress also stands up and says aren’t you tired of me just relax………… there is a point you reach when you are so stressed that no more stress can make any more damage……..due to 2 reasons………. One where you have said I DON’T CARE and second is where you are able to diagnosed the stress and tried to handle it and have discarded it…… both ways are good but the saturation point is that point wherein it doesn’t affect you at all so you neither have to say I DON’T CARE not have to DISCARD IT coz you never absorbed it in the first place. Total bliss….

Omg you are a saint now hahahahahaha…….. but believe me you will be in an outstanding position if you can handle it that way. I always have an argument with my mom when I forcibly tell her to take up this path hahahaha she says what you think I have a button which will give me this saintly traits hahaha.  Jokes apart I have tried it many times and of course never been so successful coz the first step to this achievement is when you leave the love for expecting anything from anyone around you. I am sorry if I make it feel that we need to be self centered omg a big NO NO, but the bliss achieved by this would be really awesome. Now I am confused hahahaha… just joking………..

I am able to reach to this point just coz of one experience of mine………. I am a bhakasur of expectation hahahaha makes me feel so FAT now hahahaha I have tons of expectation…..but  from my LOVED ONES only.. which is fair enough… I don’t even leave my daughter I expect that little one also to give me back the love I give her………. Coming to the experience two of them actually.

 I am a very sensitive person so I expect a lot… in one situation I expected to get something which required that person to change completely that means he/she would not be his/her self anymore……. After many years of trying to expect I realized it is not this person who needs to change its me who has to evolve myself in a way to absorb it to a point that I do not feel the need for the change………… and you would not believe it but I did find that this mantra of not getting affected really works……. That day I realized that it is me who is expecting to the core from a person who can give only that much…….

And in my second experience I expected a person to change something for me coz that would make me happy……….hahaha m laughing coz I was a fool………. I realized that you can change something which is bad maybe but cant change something which is good unless that person wants it to be changed for you………………. My writeup ‘try the change’ works only when you want a change from a person or for a person whom you love which would really make you happy…….. you cant forcibly change someones habit just coz you want to be happy…………there is a thin contradictory line here……………..

So I am a saint now hahahaha nope not at all……………I realized 2 things:

1] reach a point of saturation as it will give you a correct direction of how not to waste time in changing something or expecting something or any other thing for that matter……..just don’t get affected with it………. It actually doesn’t really matter unless you activate your brain and fit a bad command of saying OO IT AFFECTS ME……….. just delete it……..

2] and second concentrate on reaching a point wherein your happiness is loaded and you have a battery full just by not putting your thoughts in wrong direction……..by that I mean concentrating only on how to be happy by not making anyone else unhappy………….. expect depending on the limitations others have…………. Get stressed to the point where body doesn’t get affected……….

Too much to digest today hahaha taking your leave now

Will come up with something related to good thoughts and bad thoughts, stay tuned

Stay blessed…..Stay Happy……….Stay Safe………..