Sometimes we have to get knocked down lower than you have ever been to stand back taller than you ever were. This verse was apt but I never got a feel of it until now. I realized something about life which I may have realized late for sure but its never late to know the secret of life. We experience life at it’s own pace. There are some pointers God sets for us which he pulls up as a story to make us understand, there are people who walk past it and don’t take the gist of it, there are some who brush past it knowing the meaning but not absorbing it, some great souls absorb it but drain it thinking they are at a level whom no-one can teach and the rest who I would proclaim saints take it, soak it, absorb it, digest it and slowly release it in their behavior and their actions.

The art of releasing the goodness which we draw in life during the dawn and dusk of the day is that strength which helps attaining the peace of life. Yes it’s deep and complicated as many people say my writings cannot be understood but if life could be understood easily I don’t think any of us would be searching for peace we all would be peaceful and always happy.

I would say we should do everything to achieve this peace of mind. We normally say ‘forgive and forget’ is the key to peace. But if you are going to forgive or forget and resent then its better we leave this key aside for sure. Bitterness is something which takes a toll on our tongue and the removal of which is tricky but not hard. So if our tasty tongue can handle bitterness easily with our help then why leave our mind bitter?????

Now, one would say what exactly is ‘peace of mind’?? This has a lot of answers which depends on which one we choose. For some just by getting to have their meals in time is peace, for some it’s just seeing things in their life orderly is peace that could be the day passing off without much tension. So we need to search the meaning of this which our mind must have set for us???? God! That would be huge, so we need to help the mind to set the definition of PEACE. For me it’s getting to live the way I want to without any hassles. Now some people will wonder what and which hassles hahahaha that again depends on what we proclaim it is.

The key to all this would be we need to do the right thing doesn’t matter what others will say (others always have a say in some others life until we make them realize they are ‘other’ and we don’t bother). So remember it is you and not them who have to face the consequences for the same. So in this case if for getting your peace if you need to delete/add someone to your life or take some time out for yourself to introspect and find that ‘YOU’ in you or its just saying ‘I love you’, ‘I hate you’, I don’t care a damn’ etc is your decision. I always felt I would do this post my duties in life just when everything gets settled and live accordingly….…I was to… until yesterday when I spoke to a dear friend of mine I realized ……..it’s from now……..just now…… coz we also should remember tomorrow never comes………… this decision is taking a huge toll of me right now but as we always say its better now or never………it’s never too late to change/redo/delete/add etc in your life.

I am not saying this is easy……….as I always say nothing is easy…….we need to try…….we may fail…..but we need to try………..even a video game gives chances if you loose……….

Our mind changes in a fraction of a second, that just doesn’t mean we need to change accordingly but when we want to change and we feel it’s the need of the hour than change before the thought changes in your mind. Delete before our heart says its ok what will happen if we keep her/him in life it will depress me a bit so it’s ok………….add before your mind says ‘are you ok cut the krap’………let go of those things we think are important but believe me they are just not of any value its we who have given that value to those things ……. It’s just a small PIECE we need to re-fix in order to get the PEACE in this case change the ‘IE’ in your life to ‘EA’ asap before it’s too late. Taking help of near and dear ones to sort such situations could be really helpful. So do so don’t wait for things to pass……..dont wait for time to come……. Time never comes unless we want it to come……..things don’t happen it is we who make them happen…….. its MAGIC……… be magical……..

Taking your leave now…………………

Stay blessed…..Stay Happy……….Stay Safe………..