Helping yourself to safety..

The minute we think about “Self” we get scared of which part of us are we neglecting. When I say which part I mean which responsibility…again when I say responsibility…its that responsibility which we have taken on our shoulder on our own…have we ever asked the persons consent before we take it up…does he or she require it or it’s just our over protective minds which think it’s required n without which they wouldn’t be able to survive.

There are times when we are overloaded with all these responsibilities unnecessarily taken up because we r conscious we r protective we want it…. we never pondered on the fact if its required…or needed by the people whom you have taken it up for. The minute we realise its just a flower kept on another plant which can be removed coz it will neither help that plant to grow nor make any difference if it’s removed.

It wouldn’t mean u r not required in their lives it just means they can handle it…they have a mind n a plan…we r not needed to do anything to make their life work..we may think our plan is easy n helpful but as they are different individuals we need to give space to the other individual to bloom ON THEIR OWN…they require that space n above all you require you own SELF SPACE to figure whats the best for yourself.

PEOPLE can only suggest or give you ideas on how? why? who? which? when? …but it’s you who should put it in place… noone can rule your mind coz it’s only you who know the answer to the question as everything is created by you for yourself…

Realization God or Goddess is within you…you need to bring it out on your own… someone can give you pen/pencil/colours but it’s you who can draw n colour what you want for yourself… We definitely know what we want…and definitely know how to get it…its only when we realise the fact that we need to do the needful..we can get it done…the more we bury it or the more we try to run away from it… it will affect the mental health coz of increased stress. Denial is the biggest mistake which we tend to revert too often.

Given a chance to re-evolve I think we should take it…I got one for myself through a friend’s workshop on GREET YOUR INNER GODDESS….It was a lovely session by the CENTRE OF ME ….I had just gone to have fun with friends but ended up realizing the fact that the FROG NEEDS TO JUMP OUT…. it’s very painfulĺ for sure as its mostly against our will n it takes us out of our comfort zone but we should remember its not out of our comfort zone but it’s out of the box which we made for ourselves and think is comfortable… the amount of uncomfortability we are into is reflected via health. So keep an eye on yourself.. we need to start with ourselves first. Pamper ourselves …release our pain…heal our soul…put our oxygen mask before we try to help others…be free n jump out of the box..

There are many people out there who would help you with your emotions….you need to find the right one…..

Stay blessed…..Stay Happy……….Stay Safe………..

Until next time see you

You can get back to me on mindfullmcchc7@gmail.com for those who want to help yourself lead life in a better way…