Imagine we had a life which was only full of happiness and always remained charming. Family and friends are always around you during your good times coz its pleasant. Who would want trouble or invite trouble.

Complications are a part of life and will always be as we always want it attached to us. Even if it is about taking rice on the plate…. Ooo we need to use this spoon only or you cannot take it over the curry or else you may cipf-es.org drop some in it or how much do I take what if it is less or more…………. Why think just take it on the plate.

In this pandemic I think majority of the problems or stress causing points we must have made so far would have solved coz half of the people we have in life causing it would have already given up on you hahaha. We are wasting time in blaming the world for something we ourselves have to take care of. Corona has spread in Goa like wild fire…………..omg government should have taken proper measures………….what is this the doctor should have checked them properly and medicated them in time………………etc what about the responsibility we have towards ourselves will the government and doctors be around us all the time to sort this pandemic situation for us. We want to roam around and mingle with people……….. we want to roam around without masks thinking what rubbish I wont be affected………… etc. Being responsible is the need of this hour. We need to be responsible for ourselves sometimes things are not in our control but we need to be vigilant and stay hygienic. I am saying this as we have to get out for work and other commitments which cannot be avoided.

The important thing to understand here is to be patient in this situation wherein forget we, noone really knows how things will take shape. We have an issue which looked resolved but took a turn where colours changed from green to red in no time just coz we do not have an idea of how it goes about. Stress levels increased or I would say spiked up as we have no clue of how to tackle this current problem and how to keep ourselves safe. I have many people telling me from before that I need to start meditating to keep myself calm. Now in this current scenario I feel we need to do the same. Meditate to stay calm. The worse stress causer at present is social media. We are busy forwarding messages on Covid 19 that out of 25 forwards I get in the morning 19 will be on covid 19. I have stopped forwarding nor reading anything which comes up unless it is something different. I have seen the main aim in life is getting up in the morning and checking what our dear whatsapp has in store for us. It is so good that I receive the same forward on all my groups. If we had to forward something nice on someone or something good what someone has done I don’t think anyone will be bothered to even read forget forwarding it hahahaha…. Kya milega wo bakwas forward karke….what would I get if I forward it I mean hahah…. If a message on covid 19 or a rumour on that would give me a good base for a useless discussion which is far more exciting than a basic message which would spread some happiness or solve someone’s problem who would be in the same situation and not able to express.

I have been writing lately on some issues which I also had a concern with and always thought it’s the same topic wandering in everyones life but either they don’t have time to pen it down or they don’t know how to express on those situations. I have received many calls saying they feel the same and think on the same lines but never got to express coz of lack of time or lack of words or where to express. I just feel that instead of wasting our time in arguing on or discussing on topics which would lead to nowhere and would rather waste your time its better we engage ourselves in other good deeds.

This current writeup today was totally offbeat and just thought of penning down at the spur of a second. This current pandemic has affected all the organizations present in society but the most affected one was the educational system. We were able to start back on track everything accept schools coz we could not put children in danger as neither they would know that mask is important as a sneeze would put them in danger nor would they know they need to keep their hands off most of the objects they touch coz they do not know that formites invite infection. So the best would be to keep them safe at home and start online education so that their studies are not hampered.

Now when we talk about online education there are many interruptions due to the lack of use of such a medium in a normal life of ours. Teachers and school management have never tried this out on everyday basis for sure. Parents and children are also not up for it as it’s a very new theme. We can neither blame the parents nor blame the teachers for an unsuccessful start or a difficulty being faced due to this new addition. Whom do we blame for this now………..Corona Virus or China or whom??????

In such a situation I personally feel we need to come together and try to sort of the problems together. These problems needs time to develop the solutions. We cannot argue of the way of teaching or argue on how the hell are we facing problems and why aren’t we having these solved. We need to wait and watch for sometime at least once this new system starts before we start finding faults. The solution to the problem maybe totally different when the real problem arises so staying calm and allowing the schools to start would be the best option. We cannot start grumbling of what could happen before it even starts. We should know that nothing is going to continue if it is not working properly for sure. For example if classes start and it looks like it is not going on properly that is the time the school would definitely find solutions with the help of the suggestions incorporated by the parents too.

It’s a two way process where both are involved. If we do not give the school or the teachers a chance to start by giving them solutions n suggestions, this will only trigger more problems then of course nothing is ever going to work.  Simple example is when we are cooking a dish…………. Mother is trying to cook and kids …husband…. neighbours try to correct n give her suggestions on what she is suppose to do before she even started cooking……………outcome would be hunger for sure for that family hahahahaha.

There will be problems… there will be drawbacks……… there will be hindrance……. But that will be taken care of for sure once we give them a chance to start off in the first place.

Better example I would like to give here…… a newly wed bride is asked to cook something and serve the family on the first day of hers in the new house…………..now imagine this situation please focus……….. she is in the kitchen……. She has her father in law…mother in law………sister in law….. brother in law………. the house maid……. And some close relative…………..some good neighbours all standing around her………………. Common beta make something and show us…….. common bahu we are waiting………. What do you expect that BAHU to do hahaahahahah currently this Bahu is our school institution and the teacher who will be teaching our children amidst the parents and others watching over them through the apps which the teachers will use…………. How do you thing she will manage??????????? Btw in the example which I gave above the BAHU ran inside the room and gave them 2 options………… either you all go away so that I can cook in peace and present to you or you all gathered there cook and eat for yourself……………….

So now it is for us to decide if we are going to teach our kids ourselves or we are going to allow the teachers and management to teach our kids and solve problems as and when they arise. In case the problem are not solved that’s a different issue where we need to interfere but that comes as the last resort not to be thought of before hand and mess up or give a change to the appropriate people.

Same goes with giving a chance to ourselves to save ourselves from this situation by staying safe and maintaining social distancing to the fullest. Enjoyment is required but it doesn’t always come with partying around. We can use video calls with friends and have a cup of tea coffee with friends or enjoy with your family….we are on a break to learn life in a better way…….that doesn’t make me less happy but makes us more responsible towards the society coz we are causing less harm in not increasing the susceptible infection.  

Secondly I would also like to urge people…….. there are some people who are trying to help or trying to give their best in getting things arranged in this situation…… I personally hate to see the colours and as a good friend of mine says shades of those colours in the time of problems……we have everyone during times of happiness we need to get together in tough times too…..please do not get their moral down…remember they are not getting any medal nor getting any money trying to do this deed there are getting to do………. Solutions are always there for problems when they arise………… we need to allow the problems to come up before we try to impose the solutions.

This beautiful life of ours is no longer in anyones hand to take care of during this pandemic we need to do the needful coz it is the need to the hour.

Taking you leave for now……Stay Blessed….Stay Happy….Stay Safe….